Sentimental Ties

All of us are unique in our own ways. We all have our own different things that we do once we get happy, content, lonely, sad, guilty, frustrated, and angry and also when we are in love. We people like to express our feeling with someone but there are few people who prefer to express them with their sentimental things, let it be with an animal, grave of someone and even mere things. Having these sentimental ties with something are because they do not really have someone to share them to and when someone feels depressed and lonely and they often give more importance to what they consider their sentimental value. Some may think it may seem foolish for someone to act like that but they are mistaken because sometimes people tend to give more importance to things than other people because they often got too hurt or what they value are given from an important person or these mere things people thought are meaningless are from the certain person’s special memories. These kinds of things are more valuable for them than other things because they tend to hold special things in different occasions. Having sentimental ties are often what people had to get their strong from those ties or for other people these things are keeping them sane.
Seems so impossible and mostly foolish but there are quite a lot of people that are acting like this. Because some other people don’t really want to have any ties with other people rather than they prefer having these ties with different things. Some of us don’t really need someone to be there for us and we often like more having our sentimental things with us, because we feel contented just by having them with us. Having sentimental ties are quite easier than having ties with other people, because trusting someone is a lot harder than those we feel to our sentimental ties, if we ever have one. It really is not possible that someone doesn’t have any sentimental ties because we actually have ones but we just did not take our time to notice them. There are those times in our lives where we actually have things that are dear to us that no matter how much we changed, or how older we got we cannot give up those up because time may have passed by but the importance and value of those certain things are still strong and worth keeping for.
If you won’t then try to remember when we were still in our younger years, where we still cry for some foolish reasons and events and what are those things that would be there for us? Let it be our teddy bear, favorite blanket, bunny, doll, stuffed dog, cat, crocodile, Barbie, truck or favorite pillow. My point is these things aren’t really the important characteristics it has, but those memories it held and where we got them in the first place. See, some may already forget those simple things we got from our childhood but there are some of those rare people that are still keeping those things for a lifetime. They are not obsessed but rather they want to keep their things worth treasuring for. People who acts like that would reminisce their happy days when they got no care for the world. Sentimental things are not always those things that would makes us happy but there are also other possible reasons.

We either keep them because they hold the most special memory that we had once, or the most worth fighting for thing we fought for, or the most special resemblance of our accomplishments in life. Some may think it will not cause much pain once they lose those things they gave value but they are mistaken because sometimes it would greatly affect those people. A person who feels like those are really not overdramatic but that rare emotion some other people have where they give a lot of importance with just small and simple things they have or got in life. Yes, it may seem like they are just acting like a very overdramatic but they are not like that and they just seem to be more understanding of the worth of things they receive. This kind of characteristic of someone is very noble and honorable, because these days quite a lot of us takes things we had for granted and not because they are important to us or have any sentimental values to us. No matter how much we deny it, this is true. Now a day it is very rare to see that kind hearted person that cares for those who are in need, who would stop from the side of the street to give what they have much to those who are in need. This kind of action are really heart melting and kind, they may not notice but it those they helped would certainly feel more than grateful to those who have the kind hearts to help them, let it be a blanket, pillow, short, shorts or food, they would feel very happy with just those small and simple things others did to them.
That right there would be a great example of having sentimental ties, where someone would feel the great happiness through small and kind gestures. It really is quite sad to think that those who have more than anything anyone could have are those people who don’t really give importance towards it, they would not treasure them. Unlike other people who would just receive even just a very small thing from another person they would feel already contented just by having them. Honestly it really is not a big deal whether we give someone and anyone big things or expensive things as long as those things we gave comes from the heart it would be more than just a mere item but a rare gem to be kept by others. This really may be a common knowledge for others but we may just do not understand this simple message means or we just forget them more often.
Just remember that everything we have in our life we must learn to appreciate them, because there are a lot of people out there that don’t really have much in their lives but they are more than grateful to have just even some little things from other people.